how do we know what is right? if it feels good, we know that it will come back to bite us. Anything that feels good in the start, sex, alcohol, chocolates, has a funny way to have us pay for that joy. a balance sheet sort of. but without it, life seems to be missing something. if we avoid these things  its as if life was not lived, if we indulge we become ill from them. balance.

too long a story some people will lose interest, too short and no one gets the point. focus too long on something and everything else will escape you, you could try not to focus at all and see if things come together. leaving things alone will not create change and chances are the situation will simply deteriorate. Left to its own  things simply deteriorate. they don’t get better, although a cold might pass as will the fury you might feel in the moment. moments are good to leave and review, but not too long.

off to the day we go. half the time the world will be happening to us, the other half we have a shot at changing it. we get to interact with so many, we can move objects around and say things to others that will genuinely effect their moods. we create laughter and tears, when we die our loved ones will miss us and when you spread out the days long enough, none of what we say, do or write matter.