a fearless leader of nonsense

Once upon a time there was a Chinese farmer who lost a horse, ran away. And all the neighbors came around that evening and said, “That’s too bad.” And he said, “Maybe.”

The next day the horse came back, and brought seven wild horses with it. And all the neighbors came around and said, “Why, that’s great. Isn’t it?” And he said, “Maybe.”

The next day his son was attempting to tame one of these horses and was riding it and was thrown and broke his leg. And all the neighbors came around in the evening said, “Well, that’s too bad. Isn’t it?” The farmer said, “Maybe.”

The next day the conscription officers came around, looking for people for the army and they rejected his son, because he had a broken leg. And all the neighbors came around that evening and said, “Isn’t that wonderful?” And he said, “Maybe.”

The whole process of nature is an integrated process of immense complexity and it is really impossible to tell whether anything that happens in it is good or bad. Because you never know what will be the consequences of the misfortune, or you never know what will be the consequences of good fortune.

Alan Watts-

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fighting and making up with one another is a form of dancing. it is a dance we do with people we are attracted to. as we focus our time and energy on someone or something, we strain to make it into the object or person we want it to be.