each problem, solution and interpretation is all in our head. it does not have any bearing on the bigger picture. step away from it, meet another soul or simply change your thoughts and the problems go away as simply and as quickly as it began. pivot.

want something. choose it. but be careful as there is a good chance you will get it. and with most things, the outcome and the reality of that wish will let you down a bit. each and every dream ever realised leaves the person feeling a bit empty. as if you have summited the highest peak in the world, only to be out of breath and exhausted and worried about the storms coming in that would take it all away. a quick photo opportunity and then back to the safe zone where we tend to lie.

a good deal is where both party walks away feeling as though they could have obtained a better hand. a bit let down, immediately both parties walk away feeling a bit disappointed. this is a good deal, this is a deal whereas if one party felt great, well the deal would be bad. each things need two sides. you must feel bad for the good things to come and you must feel good when the bad things descend. too feel happy when you are falling is the true triumph.