nothing is perfect. we fight, call each other names, but holding onto someone rather then giving up strengthens a bond and leads to a better place. it easy to quit, but the outcome will be difficult. anything easier in the start is harder later. if you loved in the start, truly loved, then hold on. ride the waves and find ways to enjoy the difficulties. the meaning of happiness is found when enjoying all the other times.

its easy to enjoy the good times. spending money, eating, sleeping, drinking. the true test of finding peace is to enjoy all the other moments. the classwork, officework, homework all the things that fill our times. if you can enjoy the other side, the fights, the boring moments, the time away then you have mastered an art that many do not. love the banal, love your partner for their change, for their differences and for simply being. love the fall as much as the rise.

its perspective. the game keeps going, the rules are partly made up by you and partly by the ones you are playing with. pass the ball, be nice, compliment, follow the platinum rule and do unto them as they want to have done. like a perfect sunset, the feeling will surface just as the storm parts, and waiting for you will not be more confusion, more people, more dates, but the one you started with and the one that will see you to the end.