the multiple facets of life. spinning on so many fronts. friends, family, self, finances, health, happiness, social and physical skills, a multilevel game is on as soon as you realise it. nobody to help or judge other then you and each stage the parameters keep changing. you cant win it all, failure is bound to be part of the equation but thats the point. it helps weed out what you should not be doing. it teaches you what to do better. 

our families help and hurt, depending on what sort you were dealt. often more times then not you end up ok, with a bit more then where you started. growth, actual measurable advancement is part of the whole dance we are playing. with each laugh, object or achievement we decide that its worth the fight and push forward. we form deeper relationships and meaning with others and our selves, we constantly play hide and seek with our former self, melding into who we want to be, or for some, who we have to be. 

encouraged by our friends, spouses and ourselves we wake up each day and do our best to manage the difficulties we all face. we address our demons, we feel shame for our hidden moments where we hide and gorge on our personal wants but enjoy it and come back out and make up for it with kind words and good deeds. we are humans, animals standing upright trying to be nice and get along without going backwards if we can.